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Self-Relationship Reflection & Review
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Let’s get real—when was the last time you truly checked in with yourself? Not just the surface-level stuff, but the deeper, quieter thoughts that shape how you see yourself every single day.

Do you wake up feeling capable, worthy, and confident? Or do you catch yourself doubting, criticizing, or shrinking back? When things don’t go as planned, do you offer yourself compassion, or do you replay your mistakes like a never-ending loop? And in relationships—do you trust and honor yourself, or do you sometimes put yourself last?

The way you see and speak to yourself is the foundation for everything—your confidence, your relationships, your choices, your happiness. It affects the opportunities you go after, the love you accept, and the boundaries you set (or don’t). Your self-image is either your greatest ally or your quietest limitation.

This quiz isn’t about labels or judgments—it’s about awareness. It’s a chance to pause, reflect, and get curious about your inner world. Through a series of simple yet revealing questions, you’ll uncover patterns in how you relate to yourself. Maybe you’ll notice places where you’re already strong and self-supportive. Or maybe you’ll recognize areas where old beliefs or habits are holding you back. Either way, awareness is the first step toward real, lasting change.

No pressure. No expectations. Just an honest moment with yourself!

In this assessment you will explore seven key themes of your self-relationship. Take your time to answer the questions honestly and vulnerably.

You will receive a results summary and an in-depth downloadable report that will help you see how healthy your inner relationship is, where you are thriving, and where you might want to make changes. Reviewing your self-relationship results will provide you with a clear and concise snapshot of your relationship with yourself, perhaps for the first time. I provide some useful next steps in the report, so make sure you download the PDF when offered.

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SELF-CARE

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Do you prioritize your own needs and well-being in relationships?

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Do you indulge in activities that promote mental and emotional well-being?

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Do you engage in physical activities or exercise for your health?

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Do you prioritize self-care and engage in activities that bring you joy?

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Do you practice mindfulness or meditation to reduce stress?

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Do you make sure to eat nourishing foods, and get enough sleep?

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Do you set aside time for self-reflection and personal growth?

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Do you allocate time for activities that bring you joy and relaxation?

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SELF-TRUST

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Do you trust your instincts when making decisions?

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Do you trust that your decisions align with your values and principles?

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In relationships, do you trust your judgment in choosing trustworthy and supportive people?

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When facing important decisions, do you trust your ability to make the right choices?

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Do you practice saying 'no' when you need to prioritize your own well-being?

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Do you overcommit to others when asked to do for them, overriding your own needs?

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When faced with criticism, do you trust in your own worth and self-validation?

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Do you trust that you deserve success and positive outcomes in your endeavors?

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SELF-TALK

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Do you catch yourself criticizing or denigrating yourself without realizing it?

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In moments of stress, do you use positive self-talk to calm and reassure yourself?

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Do you use affirmations to reinforce positive beliefs about yourself?

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Do you allow yourself to make mistakes, and not be too hard on yourself?

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Do you challenge negative thoughts about yourself with positive and realistic alternatives?

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Do you cultivate a positive internal dialogue, focusing on your potential and capabilities?

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When facing self-doubt, do you consciously affirm your abilities and strengths?

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Do you speak kindly to yourself, even if what is happening isn’t perfect?

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SELF-AWARENESS

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Do you take time for self-reflection on your daily experiences?

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Do you seek feedback from others about your behavior and actions?

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In challenging situations, do you reflect on your own reactions?

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Do you reflect on your strengths and weaknesses?

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Do you recognize patterns in your behavior and decision-making?

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Do you actively seek to understand and manage your stress levels?

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Do you engage in activities that bring you joy and fulfillment?

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Do you recognize the impact of your actions on others?

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SELF-APPROVAL

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Do you find yourself seeking external validation for your choices and actions?

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Do you feel proud of your individuality and uniqueness without comparing yourself to others?

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Do you find yourself relying on others to feel OK, based on their approval of you?

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Do you feel confident and content with your decisions without needing reassurance from others?

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Do you prioritize your own happiness and fulfillment over meeting others' expectations?

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Do you maintain confidence in your choices despite the opinions of others?

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Do you rely on your own discernment rather than seeking approval from others?

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Do you appreciate and approve of the person you are becoming?

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SELF-RESPECT

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Do you prioritize your own needs and well-being in decision-making, even if challenging?

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In challenging situations, do you stand up for your values and principles?

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Do you set and maintain healthy boundaries in your relationships?

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Do you advocate for your own needs and wants?

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Do you respond to criticism without compromising your self-worth?

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Do you engage in activities that uplift and honor your personal values?

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When faced with challenges, do you maintain your integrity and values?

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Do you respond to situations that challenge your self-worth with resilience and self-love?

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SELF-FORGIVENESS

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Do you feel guilt and shame about past experiences?

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Do you blame yourself for circumstances beyond your control?

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Do you hold onto guilt and shame towards yourself?

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Do you carry regret for choices made in the past?

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Do you hold onto blame and resentment toward others?

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Do you find it difficult to forgive yourself for past mistakes?

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Do you practice self-acceptance, acknowledging that you are a work in progress?

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When making amends, do you struggle to forgive yourself, even after seeking forgiveness from others?

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I applaud you %%NAME%%, for honoring and being honest with yourself. Thank you for putting effort and time into consciously considering your inner relationship with yourself in these select areas. Below is a summary chart of your overall results. Download your comprehensive report (click the Download PDF button), which goes far beyond this line chart with more expanded clarification and useful principles and guidance to help you start moving forward.
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Your Results Summary:
To provide you with a snapshot overview, this chart is represents your aspect results in line format, which shows a concise view of your self-support aspect. Each line is color-coded - green is a very strong level of self-support, yellow is a middling level, and red is a weak level indicating a minimal level of self-support in that area. If any of your self-support lines show as red, I strongly encourage and invite you reach out for support right now. Frankly, if any of the lines are not green, you may want to reach out too. Download the linked PDF for much more detailed notes and useful guidance you can implement.

[CategoryRank columns="1" order="lowtohigh" high="green" medium="yellow" low="red" high_range="80-100" medium_range="50-80" low_range="0-50" limitto="7"]

Your Next Steps:
Consider this chart, and the results you have received in the downloadable PDF. Do these results surprise you or resonate for you, %%NAME%%? Have you experienced any revelations? Are you surprised by these results in a good way, or did you feel any disappointment? Are you feeling confirmed or distressed? This assessment quiz creates a snapshot of how you relate to yourself at this moment in time. It provides an opportunity to see and reflect on what is working, and what needs attention, for your life to rock. Are you ready to take your next steps toward living that amazing life? You have questions, I have answers, let's talk (click here to book)!



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