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Love and Life

A Life-Changing 6-Week Journey to Heal, Empower, and Thrive

You’ve Built Success—But Do You Trust Yourself in Life & Love?

  • Do you second-guess yourself, even after years of experience?
  • Do you find it easier to trust others’ opinions over your own?
  • Do you hesitate in relationships, afraid of repeating past mistakes?
  • Do you struggle to set boundaries that honor your worth and protect your time?

You’ve worked hard, made smart decisions, and built success in many areas of your life. But when self-trust is shaken—whether by past relationships, career challenges, or personal setbacks—it impacts everything. Without self-trust, even the most accomplished person can feel stuck, uncertain, or unfulfilled.

But when you rebuild it? You gain the confidence to make decisions with clarity, act boldly, and live on your terms.

Why Rebuilding Self-Trust Will Change Your Life

Here’s What You’ll Gain in This Course:

  • Unshakable Confidence – Make decisions without hesitation, knowing you can trust yourself in any situation.
  • Stronger Boundaries – Protect your energy, time, and emotional well-being by confidently saying “no” when needed.
  • Emotional Freedom – Let go of fear, guilt, and overthinking so you can experience true peace and self-assurance.
  • Deep Inner Alignment – Stop people-pleasing and second-guessing yourself—every choice you make will align with your values and goals.
  • Stronger, Healthier Relationships – Build connections based on mutual respect, trust, and authenticity—no more settling or tolerating unhealthy dynamics.
  • Resilience & Self-Assurance – Handle life’s challenges with grace, knowing you are your own greatest advocate and supporter.

When you master self-trust, you don’t just move forward
—you take control of your life with certainty, clarity, and confidence.

Introducing:

Reclaiming Self-Trust in Love and Life

This isn’t about theory. It’s a structured, proven process to help you:

  • Rebuild unshakable self-trust so you can make decisions with confidence.
  • Overcome past relationship patterns and break free from hesitation and doubt.
  • Develop stronger boundaries that protect your time, energy, and self-respect.
  • Step into emotional freedom so you can create deeper, healthier connections.
  • Strengthen your intuition and learn to trust yourself without fear or hesitation.

This course is designed for successful, mature men and women who are ready to stop doubting themselves and start living—and loving—with certainty.

What You’ll Get Inside This Transformational Program

This 6-week online course gives you the tools, mindset shifts, and strategies to rebuild your self-trust and reclaim your confidence. Every module is designed to guide you step-by-step through this transformation.

Week 1

The Foundations of Self-Trust

  • Discover where and why your self-trust was broken.
  • Identify how past experiences, conditioning, and self-doubt have shaped your decisions.
  • Recognize the patterns that keep you stuck in uncertainty and hesitation.

Week 2

Rewriting the Stories You Tell Yourself

  • Identify the self-limiting beliefs that sabotage your confidence.
  • Learn how to shift your inner dialogue to align with truth, not fear.
  • Rewrite your personal narrative to reflect strength, resilience, and clarity.

Week 3

Strengthening Your Inner Compass

  • Learn how to reconnect with and trust your intuition.
  • Differentiate between fear-based hesitation and true inner wisdom.
  • Develop a system for making aligned decisions with confidence.

Week 4

Boundaries That Protect Your Energy & Self-Worth

  • Discover why weak or unclear boundaries keep you feeling depleted and disrespected.
  • Learn how to set firm, confident boundaries without guilt.
  • Implement clear, effective communication strategies to maintain your boundaries in all areas of life.

Week 5

Embracing Empowered Choices

  • Break free from old habits of overthinking and seeking external validation.
  • Learn how to make confident, values-based decisions with ease.
  • Develop a simple, repeatable framework for choosing what truly serves you.

Week 6

Sustaining Self-Trust & Living Authentically

  • Integrate your self-trust practices into your daily life.
  • Learn how to maintain self-trust even when facing challenges or setbacks.
  • Step fully into your power and own your choices with confidence and clarity.

What You’ll Get Inside This Transformational Program

6 Weekly Modules Packed with High-Impact Training

Each module is designed to help you reprogram old patterns, rebuild self-trust, and step into total confidence.

Video Lessons

Direct, no-fluff guidance on self-trust, boundaries, and decision-making.

Workbooks & Exercises

Apply each lesson immediately with structured exercises.

Guided Reflections & Journal Prompts

Identify and shift subconscious blocks to self-trust.

Exclusive Access to Live Q&A Sessions
(VIP Option)

Apply each lesson immediately with structured exercises.

This program isn’t just about learning—it’s about taking back control of your confidence, choices, and future.

What People Are Saying About This Life-Changing Program

“I thought I was confident. I had a successful career, great friends, and yet… I kept making terrible choices in my love life. Barry’s course showed me exactly why I kept second-guessing myself and taught me how to listen to my own instincts again. It’s like a fog has lifted—I finally trust ME.”
SamanthaEntrepreneur
“I spent years chasing external validation—trying to be the ‘nice guy’ at work and in relationships, even when it made me unhappy. This program gave me the courage to start honoring my own needs. I no longer let fear dictate my choices, and I’ve never felt more in control of my life.”
DavidExecutive Consultant
“I used to overthink everything. I’d delay making decisions, afraid of messing up. This course helped me break that cycle. I now trust my intuition, set boundaries without guilt, and make choices that align with my values. I feel empowered every single day.”
LisaAttorney
“I didn’t realize how much I had lost my voice in relationships. Barry’s course helped me reclaim my confidence, and now I’m in a relationship where I feel seen, respected, and valued. I don’t settle anymore—I trust myself completely.”
MarkBusiness Owner

Enrollment Options: Choose Your Path to Self-Trust

I know that everyone’s journey is different, which is why I’ve created two ways for you to experience this life-changing program. Whether you prefer to go at your own pace or receive direct support, there’s an option designed just for you.

Option 1

Self-Paced Transformation

$297

  • Integrate your self-trust practices into your daily life.
  • Learn how to maintain self-trust even when facing challenges or setbacks.
  • Step fully into your power and own your choices with confidence and clarity.

💡 Ideal for independent learners who want a structured yet flexible transformation experience.

How It Works:

  • As soon as you enroll, you’ll receive immediate access to the first module.
  • A new module unlocks each week, allowing you to build on your progress without overwhelm.
  • You’ll have lifetime access to the content, so you can revisit it whenever you need.

Option 2

VIP Experience

$897 (Most Popular!)

  • Everything in the Self-Paced Transformation Plan PLUS
  • Live Q&A Coaching Calls with Barry Selby for deeper guidance
  • Direct support for personal insights and breakthroughs

This is for you if you want personalized coaching, accountability, and real-time support on your self-trust journey.

How It Works:

  • You’ll receive immediate access to the first module as soon as you enroll.
  • A new module unlocks each week, so you can implement each lesson fully before moving on.
  • You schedule your two live coaching calls with me where I answer your questions, help you overcome obstacles, and provide deeper insights tailored to your journey.
  • With direct support, you’ll accelerate your transformation and stay committed to your growth.

Who This Course Is For

This course is designed for mature, successful men and women who are ready to take back control of their confidence, choices, and future.

🚀 You’re ready for this course if:

  • You feel successful in many areas of life but still doubt yourself in love, relationships, or personal decisions.
  • You’re tired of second-guessing yourself and want to feel certain in your choices.
  • You want to stop overthinking and trust your instincts again.
  • You need stronger boundaries but don’t know how to enforce them with confidence.
  • You’re ready to live unapologetically and take action without fear.

Frequently Asked Questions

1. How do I know if this program is right for me?

If you’ve ever struggled with self-doubt, found yourself hesitating on important decisions, or felt disconnected from your own inner wisdom, this course is designed for you. It’s especially powerful if you’re successful in many areas of life but still struggle with trust in yourself, relationships, or setting boundaries.

That’s okay! You’ll have lifetime access to the materials, so you can go at your own pace and revisit the lessons whenever you need.

Not at all! While many of my clients are single, this course is for anyone who wants to build unshakable self-trust—whether in relationships, work, or personal life.

The Self-Paced option gives you full access to all the course materials so you can work through them on your own. The VIP option includes live Q&A calls with me, where you can get real-time coaching, ask questions, and receive deeper support on your journey.

Because this is a digital course with immediate access to valuable content, there are no refunds. However, if you fully commit to the program, I’m confident you’ll experience deep, lasting transformation.

This Is Your Moment. Step Into Your Power.

You’ve spent years mastering your career, your responsibilities, and your commitments to others. Now it’s time to master your relationship with yourself.

When you trust yourself fully, you gain:

  • The clarity to make decisions that align with your values.
  • The ability to set strong, unwavering boundaries.
  • The confidence to pursue relationships and experiences that truly fulfill you.

Want more information?

Not everyone is ready, or willing to commit. Working with me is not for the faint of heart. We go deep. Your life will be transformed, your heart will be healed and strengthened, and your way of love and dating will be raised to a whole new level. Before you invest, let’s talk, so you and I both know we want to work together for your success. 

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Want a true taste? A deep-dive single session? It takes commitment to change your life for the better. Take a first step. Do you want to step into the experience, take a deep-dive on a particular aspect, and embrace a coaching session without committing (or investing) in a multiple month package? Even a single session can be life-changing. You will learn how to live from your heart and love yourself more, and have a more inspired view on life. Book a single session, a 90-minute deep-dive conversation that will rock your love-life! 

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